I need a do-over.
The last half of this day didn’t exactly go as I was hoping. Things just kept coming up that weren’t in the plan, you know? Conflict. Cranky baby. Crazy kids. And then, the broken sink.
Feels like the past 12 hours were a total write-off! My heart is heavy tonight and I am struggling to remember if there was, in fact, anything good about this day. It’s easy to let times like this make me feel like a failure.
Then I remember Grover’s bad day.
Once I was reading a Sesame Street book to the kids about Grover having a bad day. Everything went wrong for him. He was late for playgroup, he forgot his lunch and the other monsters wouldn’t let him play football! And after school, he dropped his ice cream on the ground.
When he got home, his mom asked him how his day was and he just crumpled into her lap and told her all the things that had gone wrong. Then she said something that stuck with me: “Don’t let a bad day make you feel bad about yourself.”
How easy is it to take a tough day and turn it into a test of our competence? Those feelings of failure can seep into our hearts, making it difficult to be thankful for the things we have right in front of us. Whenever I feel like this I remember something my husband came up with about a year ago. I was having a similar kind of moment where all I wanted to do was grumble with a capital G every day all day long. It was becoming a pattern for me – a default attitude that needed to go.
“What can I do?” I asked.
“How about this: every day, find two different ways to worship God, help someone, and write down twenty things to be thankful for,” he suggested. “And each day’s list has to be different than the day before.”
“Twenty things!?” I raised an eyebrow. It was a good idea, but I was skeptical.
The first two parts came easily – the worshipping and the helping. And then, the list. I thought, There’s no way I can write down twenty things to be thankful for! But I’ll try.
Numbers one through five were the regular things you thank God for – family, shelter, provision and such. As the list grew, I began to dig a bit deeper into the things that I had in my life to be grateful for. The higher I counted, the more my attitude shifted. By number twenty, I was thanking the Lord for the difficult day itself, because I realized days like this really help me grow in ways I can’t even see at the time.
Back to Saturday night. Was there anything in this day to be thankful for? Of course there was!
A visit to the store with our cutie pie kids!
Lunch and lively conversation with friends.
A teenage niece who likes to babysit our girls so we could enjoy said lunch kid-free (besides the baby)!
Hearing our girls playing together with such incredible imagination and creativity.
Baby smiles and chatter that literally melted my heart and filled me with joy.
And my husband! Hearts-for-eyes for that guy, I’ll tell you! Just all the things about him!
Well, I think I just found my do-over.
Count your blessings
Name them one by one
Count your many blessings
See what God has done!
2 thoughts on “I Need a Do-Over”
Yes!!! I can definitely relate to your frustrations in the daily grind. I’m currently reading One Thousand Gifts by Ann Voskamp. I have decided that instead of complaining I would worship my way through to joy by giving thanks everyday in all situations and that includes the crummy ones. The transformation taking place is a process but so worth the relationship growth👍🏾
I agree! It’s really tough but totally worth it!
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