We Are Not Missing Out

I was scrolling my social media feeds the other day and I noticed one of my friends went on a trip. Another was out to dinner. Still another, at the movies.

I exhaled, stomach drawn in with that familiar sinking feeling.

My mind searched for the last time we went on a trip. I couldn’t remember dinner at an actual restaurant without kids. And the movies? Nope. As I thought of my own adventures over the past few months, I started to wonder if maybe summer really hasn’t been all that great.

Wait a minute! This is ridiculous! Just stop.

The struggle is real. As I see what others are doing, I’m tempted to compare and measure and see where I stand. And in the middle of my jealousy, my own beautiful life begins to look bleak and unsatisfying.

Lord forgive us!

Comparison is a sneaky thief, always trying to steal what’s right in front of us. And it’s always followed closely by the temptation to let jealousy and envy move into our hearts and bring all their toxicity.

Not today, friends.

Instead, let’s take a really good look at our own camera roll and see these beautiful moments right in our hands! It would be a shame to trade them for the shadow of someone else’s Instagram posts.

In this process of letting go of my measuring stick and embracing my own life, I am discovering something amazing: when I truly see the good things that God has given to me, other people’s good things are easier to celebrate!

It’s actually quite a gift.

God is so good! And everything good in our lives is because of Him! We are not missing out. And the amazing thing is, He’s not just blessing those people over there, He’s blessing us too in a million big and little ways. Our hearts need the clarity to recognize His goodness and respond in the only way we can – with a life of worship.

hymn 40

From the old red hymnal

2 thoughts on “We Are Not Missing Out

  1. Hey Stephanie!

    I just want to say that I hope you are encouraged today. Embrace where you are at right now, even if it’s not where you would like to be. I’ve just been through a difficult season, and sometimes how I cope with difficulties is by going places, or by doing activities and events. Some of your friends may be coping with difficulties that you may not have. For myself, since we’ve never been able to have kids we travel more etc., BUT I wish I was in your shoes…I would have loved to have children but it wasn’t God’s plan.

    Just a reminder to rest in each moment and each season with God. He sees you, He loves you, and He will continue to guide you to where you are meant to be.


    Cyndi

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    • Thanks so much for the reminder! I really appreciate you sharing a bit about your story and am glad for another perspective! Thanks for reading!
      -s

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